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| "You are still the one that makes me shout; Still the one that I dream about. We're still having fun, and you're still the one." |
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| "You're still the one I want to talk to in bed; Still the one that turns my head. We're still having fun, and you're still the one." |
| "You're still the one that makes me laugh; Still the one that's my better half. We're still having fun, and you're still the one. |
| "You're still the one that makes me strong; Still the one I wanna take along. We're still having fun, and you're still the one." |
| "You're still the one that I love to touch; Still the one, and I can't get enough. We're still having fun, and you're still the one." |
| "You're still the one that can scratch my itch; Still the one, and I wouldn't switch. We're still having fun, and you're still the one." |
| We're still having fun, and you're still the one. |

| LAST UPDATED 01-30-09, and not finished yet |

| 100 THINGS about Alynn Many people write "100 Things" lists, or "25 Random Things" or similar sorts of lists... in some ways people think this is arrogant, or self-absorbed or some such thing. I don't know; I always find the lists interesting when they are about people I know (and occasionally even about people I don't know!) I almost always learn something about someone that I didn't know before, often finding out more about what we have in common, or about what they value. There are things I wish people knew about me, and I realize that many people really couldn't care less, but over the past several months I have kept a casual list and added to it when I thought of things. So here, in no particular order, and subject to change, is my list of 100 things: 1. I have been to China four times in five years, and each time brought home a child. 2. I have been to Haiti six times on mission trips, helping at an orphanage, cooking, painting murals, and other work jobs. On three of the trips my husband and three young children went with me. 3. I have seven children so far, and am privileged to devote my life to raising, teaching, and loving Jordan, Hannah, Canaan, Magdalene, Silas, Eden and Isaac. 4. I have homeschooled for 15 years (since 1994). 5. I think every Christian should ask God if He wants them to adopt a child, and if not, how they can help someone else to adopt a child. 6. I have very strong views about what church is supposed to be. 7. I have very strong views about what education is supposed to be. 8. I grew up in Ontario, then moved to Florida at age 18. I lived in Florida until 2006, married there, and brought five of my seven kids home there. I live in NC now and love it here. 9. I never enjoyed school, and went away to college at age 17 and hated it. 10. I love word games. 11. I love old game shows, and would have loved to be on one. 12. I hate my dogs, but I love Jordan’s cat. 13. I have been told I have strong opinions, but wonder what other types of opinions are worth having. 14. My favorite season is autumn. 15. The only jewelry I wear anymore is my plain gold wedding band. 16. My favorite way to communicate is through email. I don’t like talking on the phone. At all. 17. I don’t color my hair anymore, and I like the gray. 18. I enjoy grammar and spelling; I would have enjoyed being an editor 19. My “dream” vacation would be to go to Alaska, the Bristish Isles, or Greenland. I have absolutely no interest in going to Hawaii, or Australia, or any place tropical, even if it were free. 20. I worry (panic) a lot and I know it’s wrong. 21. I like to garden, but I’m not good at it. 22. I don’t enjoy amusement parks much, especially Disney parks. 23. I do enjoy living history parks and exhibits very much. 24. My dream job would be to work as a character in a living history exhibit. 25. I would love to do sound effects on Whose Line is it Anyway? 26. My favorite music is Dan Zanes, Third Day, Newsboys, old Chris Thile, and Sam Bush. 27. My perfume, which I wear very occasionally, is Estee Lauder’s Cinnabar. 28. I consider myself shy and introverted, but I love the opportunity to do drama. 29. I don’t care much about cars, but I do think the Smart car is about as cute as a litter of newborn kittens. 30. I hate to shop and always avoid it. I don’t like to spend money either, even when I have it to spend (which hasn’t happened very often). 31. I am most pleased when someone compliments the behavior of my children, or if I can make someone laugh or sometimes cry. 32. I don’t eat any seafood. It’s yucky. 33. My favorite children’s book is “Even If I Did Something Awful” by Hazel Snook Hazen. 34. I like to stay home, and don’t go out unless I have to. 35. I hate to fly, but I think airports are interesting. 36. I don’t think that race or where we were born matters, and has nothing to do with who we are in God’s eyes. 37. I think China is a very sad, polluted, and crowded place to go, with millions of lost and wandering and oppressed people suffering greatly under communism, and far from God. I am puzzled when people say they enjoyed going to China, and wonder about what they really see and value in life. 38. I like to make up songs around the house. 39. I had my tubes tied, and then untied eight years later, not because I wanted more children, but because I thought it was the right thing to do. 40. I have lost two children to miscarriage, and I grieve them to this day. Their names are Samuel and Elijah. 41. The question I get asked most often about my adopted children is whether they were blood related before they were adopted, and I can’t imagine why in the world that is relevant. 42. I do not enjoy going to the beach at all, but I do think it is pretty to drive by. 43. I’m a good cook and baker, but I don’t enjoy doing either much anymore. 44. I think History is the most important school subject. It gives perspective to every other subject. 45. I get motion sickness easily. 46. I can play the guitar, bass, mandolin, violin, banjo, and piano, but I don’t play any of them much anymore. 47. Much of who I am, I owe to my husband. He is more than my best friend. He is more to me than can be put into words. 48. I was married at 21 and have been married for almost 23 years. 49. I am disappointed when I don’t get email. 50. I love black jelly beans, and red Twizzlers 51. I hate conflict and avoid it whenever possible 52. I have a penpal in Brazil who I have written to since tenth grade. 53. I can wiggle my ears 54. I think it is wasteful to spend money on fingernails, magazines, and decorating ourselves (and many other frivolous things) when there are millions of people in the world suffering in poverty that we could actually be helping. 55. I would love to run a marathon, or even half a marathon, and am disappointed that I can only do low impact activities anymore. 56. I love reading biographies, especially of missionaries. 57. In 1995 I lost 50 pounds. 58. I am afraid to go anywhere by myself. 59. I can’t stand kids who whine, and don’t know why parents allow their children to do it. 60. I am flat footed. 61. My favorite books of the Bible are Ecclesiastes and James. 62. I use an electric blanket every night, even in the summer time. 63. I can’t stand stressful movies anymore; I like romantic comedies, or better yet, just comedies. 64. I find everyone on the Food Channel annoying except for Alton Brown and Guy Fieri. 65. I like to watch shows about odd medical conditions around the world and how doctors treated them. 66. I have names picked out for our next adoption, but often doubt it will ever happen. 67. I think it is dangerous to tell God what you will and will not do. 68. My favorite animal is the polar bear because they are so strong and powerful, yet so gentle with their young. 69. I have cooked meals for as many as 200 people at a time, with little or no help from anyone outside of my own family members. 70. Our family has been involved in children’s ministry from 1990 to 2006, involved in everything from teaching Sunday School to running sports leagues to being Directors of Children’s Ministries. 71. I edited and produced the homeschool newsletter for our county’s homeschool organization of 350+ families, in which I also ran a monthly cartoon I drew. Years later I still find my cartoons on homeschool websites from time to time. 72. I enjoy writing poetry and songs. 73. I had four articles (and photos) published in a national music magazine when I was a teenager. I considered becoming a freelance writer. 74. Growing up I always thought I would be an artist, and worked briefly in graphic arts before deciding there were more important things I wanted to do, and that just because you’re good at something doesn’t necessarily mean you are supposed to make money at it. 75. I once slept the night in a stable. 76. I’ve worn glasses since I was four. 77. I enjoy British humor. 78. I have written some children’s stories and hope to someday have them published. I also dream of writing other sorts of books someday. 79. I worked ten years in banking and quit after my second child (Hannah) was born. 80. As a family of five we lived in a 1200 square foot town house until Canaan was three. We also had one car, a Honda Civic two door hatchback. 81. I volunteered one year as a tutor in an inner city, after school program. 82. I delivered newspapers for several months in 2001. It was interesting, but not worth it. 83. We once came home from a vacation to find burn marks all over our house, a big hole in the tile wall of our shower, and a Chihuahua sitting on our couch. 84. Our family has made our own Christmas cards for 19 years now. 85. I am passionately pro-life, and feel that issue takes precedence over almost all others. I think Obama (and many others) will be held accountable one day before God for all the blood he has on his hands. 86. I find the proofs for Intelligent Design to be fascinating, compelling, and inspiring. 87. Our family loves to watch the Olympics from start to finish, also the X-Games. 88. We used to own ferrets for several years, and they are adorable, but I don’t want to own any more. 89. I won first prize in an ice cream making contest once. I made up my own recipe for “Apple Crisp ice cream”. I had never made it before, and haven’t made it since. 90. I find talking with children is more interesting than talking with most adults. Children have fascinating things to say if you will really listen to them and not talk down to them. 91. I would hate to go to a spa or have anyone but my husband rub anything on me! (and I don’t see how anyone justifies the expense for that anyway) 92. My favorite authors are C.S. Lewis and Dr. Seuss. (but for different reasons) 93. Every time I take a hot bath I thank God for it and pray for all those in the world who cannot get warm, or may never have taken a bath ever. 94. I find it incredibly gratifying to make food that my family loves. 95. After going through three hurricanes, my husband and children and I all put a new metal roof on our house in Florida. It took about six months, and was a huge job. 96. I think it is tragic that there are millions of orphans in the world today, and thousands of great parents who are willing and able to lovingly welcome them into their homes, while huge, money- hungry, government bureaucracies stand in the way making it as difficult, expensive and time consuming as possible, and all too often altogether impossible. I believe they will be accountable for this one day. 97. Living in South Florida I had my car stolen, my purse stolen, at least four bikes stolen, and my house broken into, ransacked, and robbed (all at separate times). But I have never been mugged, so that's a plus. (After the house was robbed I asked the cop if we lived in a bad neighborhood for crime and he said to me, "Ma'am, all of South Florida is a bad neighborhood for crime!") 98. I know every episode of the Brady Bunch almost by heart. (yeah, not real proud of that one.) 99. I am impatient, introverted, introspective, compassionate, melancholy, witty, creative, occasionally sardonic, often sarcastic, loyal, pessimistic, faithful, uptight, passionate, fearful and funny. 100. And in spite of all of the above, I know that God loves me, Jesus died for me, and the Holy Spirit resides within me. This is who I am and what I live for. Now I'll start working on Art's list of 100 Things about himself. I'm sure he'll be interested in reading it! |
| What My Kids Think of Me (05-29-09) |
| 1. What is something Mom always says to you? Jordan: “Guard your heart and guard your mind, because no one else is going to do it for you.” Hannah: “Did anyone say how beautiful you look today?” “Be safe.” “I love you.” Canaan: “Let's eat, guys! Let's eat guys!” Maggie: “Be good.” Silas: “I love you.” 2. What makes Mom happy? Jordan: fresh cut grass; Dad’s key in the door; everyone together for dinner; funny movies; witty remarks Hannah: She likes it when we like her food, or are otherwise happy for any reason. She likes when her kids succeed and do well. She likes being with Dad, and she likes it when our whole family is together. Canaan: things being clean, children behaving, seeing her garden grow Maggie: being happy Silas: when I like her food. 3. What makes Mom sad? Jordan: when we fight, or sound like we’re fighting Hannah: She is sad when we don’t do our best and disappoint her, when we forget our chores, and fight with each other. Canaan: children being rude, fighting, not liking each other Maggie: that we’re being bad Silas: when we play bad guys 4. How does your mom make you laugh? Jordan: by hiding things in my food, mixing up her words, saying punny jokes, and her facial expressions Hannah: She makes me laugh when she writes funny things like she used to when we were in school. I also laugh when she sings. Canaan: when she mis-says words or plays with my food Maggie: tickle us Silas: tickling 5. What did your mom like to do when she was a child? Jordan: swing around a pole in the basement Hannah: She used to play in the basement, draw pictures and do crafts, make furniture and clothes for her Barbies, play music, and read comic books. Canaan: play with one of her brothers, stuff with music Maggie: I don’t know. Silas: I don’t know. 6. How old is your mom? Jordan: 44 Hannah: 44 Canaan: 44 Maggie: 40 Silas: 20 7. How tall is your mom? Jordan: 5’7” Hannah: 5’7” Canaan: 5’7” Maggie: 14 feet Silas: 8 feet 8. What is her favorite thing to watch on TV? Jordan: Family Feud Hannah: games shows and funny shows Canaan: Family Feud, Wipe Out, The Soup Maggie: the baking thing (Food Network baking challenges) Silas: To Tell the Truth 9. What does your mom do when you're not around? Jordan: stuff on the computer, sets up pranks, watches Family Feud, teaches kids Hannah: "Napoleon, like anyone could even know that." Canaan: Don’t know; I wasn’t there. Maggie: She works on the computer and cleans up stuff. Silas: cleaning 10. What is your mom really good at? Jordan: drawing and writing, being funny, having good ideas, being thoughtful Hannah: music, art, cooking and baking, teaching, grammar, writing, math. Canaan: cooking, baking, taking care of children. Maggie: baking Silas: cooking 11. What does your mom do for her job? Jordan: Mom stuff Hannah: She raises her kids to be good Christian people and she takes care of her house. Canaan: Upkeep the house I guess. Maggie: take care of kids Silas: take care of kids 12. What is your mom's favorite food? Jordan: garlic Hannah: tomatoes Canaan: whatever Hannah or I are making Maggie: salad Silas: salad 13. What makes you proud of your mom? Jordan: That she sticks to her convictions even when it seems stupid or hopeless. That she always wants to do the right thing. And her smartness. Hannah: when she is brave. Canaan: when she does hard things herself. Maggie: that she makes really delicious food Silas: because she lets us play the Wii game. 14. If your mom were a cartoon character, who would she be? Jordan: Umm…. Squidward, or Kitty from That Seventies Show Hannah: Mrs. Foil from the Upside Down Show. (not actually a cartoon, but close enough) Canaan: Rabbit (from Pooh Bear) Maggie: a mother taking care of children in a little village Silas: a cat 15. What do you and your mom do together? Jordan: We talk, cook, drink coffee, walk, some chores, stuff with the kids, watch movies and TLC shows Hannah: We talk, watch movies, eat, play outside, go to the gym. Canaan: go to the gym, clean, watch game shows Maggie: read Silas: read 16. How are you and your mom the same? Jordan: We are often told we look alike; we both have glasses and pale, veiny skin :-). We have similar taste in humor. Hannah: We are both good artists and have an ear for music. We are both conscientious and often look at things the same way. If Mom had had herself for a mom, she would probably have been a lot like me. Canaan: we like things planned out, things clean, and things organized. Maggie: we like make up (huh? not sure where that came from... I hardly ever wear any!) Silas: I say, “I love you,” and she says, “I love you" too. 17. How are you and your mom different? Jordan: I’m fatter and probably more impetuous. She’s more logical than me, and wants to be on time and plan way ahead. I also like some music and movies that she doesn’t so much. Hannah: She likes vegetables that I don’t like, and I can speak Korean and do a spinning kick. Canaan: I’m a little spur of the moment, like to go out, and eat large quantities. Maggie: I have black hair and she has like grayish and brownish mixed together. Silas: I’m a boy and she’s a girl. 18. How do you know your mom loves you? Jordan: She tells me and she’s always thoughtful. She’s honest with me and wants what’s best for me. Hannah: She goes out of her way to make sure that I am happy, educated, and taken care of. Canaan: She takes care of me like no other person and remembers things that I like and gets them when she’s out sometimes. Like Donuts! Maggie: because she hugs me and kisses me. Silas: because God made her to love us. 19. What does your mom like most about your dad? Jordan: That he’s a good, kind, strong Christian man who loves God, her and us kids. And his smile when his eyes sparkle. Hannah: She likes that he is strong and hardworking and funny and he loves God and our family. Canaan: That he has control over situations and can fix almost anything. Also he’s a good kisser… so I hear. Maggie: that he’s smart Silas: he’s big 20. Where is your mom's favorite place to go? Jordan: To take a bath? The couch for a movie night? Outside having fun with us. Hannah: She likes to go to restaurants and church and outside, and the gym, but she usually likes to stay home. Canaan: Nowhere. She likes it at home. Maybe the gym. Maggie: to the YMCA Silas: to the restaurant 21. What is one thing you wish you could change about your mom? Jordan: I’d wish she’d see herself more like I see her, and not worry about getting old or flabby. That she’d stay positive. Hannah: I wish she wouldn’t worry. Canaan: Sometimes she worries too much, which isn’t always a problem. Maggie: that she loves us even more Silas: to make her a boy 22. What would your mom do with a million dollars? Jordan: Besides donate and pay off debt? Probably some home improvements and adoptions. Maybe buy a house nearby for me :-). Hannah: She would donate most of it, then we would adopt some more kids, go on family vacation, buy good foods, let the kids do sports, gymnastics, Tae Kwon Do, and probably renovate the house. Canaan: Get more children! And maybe expand the house a bit, and definitely tithe at least 10%. Maggie: She’d give some to us. Silas: She’d give some to us. 23. What do you wish you could go and do with your mom? Jordan: Pick out a wedding dress, a crib, a kitchen set, and living room furniture for me. Hannah: I always thought it would be fun for mom to come take Tae Kwon Do with me. Canaan: Shop, get a coffee, stay at home and watch Family Feud. Maggie: Go swim together and make a big whirlpool. Silas: play 24. What is one thing you hope never changes about your mom? Jordan: Her being alive. :-) And her humor and sense of conviction. Oh, and her loving me. Hannah: I hope she never loses her hope and ambition. Canaan: Her love for children and her cooking abilities. Maggie: That she’d never turn evil and never be mean to us kids and never go away from our Daddy. Silas: that she’d never be a boy. |